HELPLINE: My ex-boyfriend is threatening to post my naked pictures on Twitter!

Written by on April 26, 2015


There is a thin line between love and hate they say. Why would someone who professes to love you threaten to humiliate you on social media? This is the “hot water” this young lady finds herself in. Any thoughts? How do you think she can deal with this situation? Put your comments below, on Twitter @royalfm951, WhatsApp or call in during the programme. See details of her story below.

Her Story:

I’m a 22-year-old girl and about a year ago I sent my boyfriend a bunch of nude pictures of me as a sign of trust. I knew it wasn’t right but he kept on trying to convince me to do it, at some point he even stopped talking to me, so I did it.
But after a while I finally decided it was a stupid and dangerous thing to do and deleted all the pictures from my phone and his phones. He was mad but I promised to send him new, sexier ones but I never did.

I just broke up with him some weeks ago and I thought that was the end of it. But he contacted me and said that he still had those inappropriate pictures of me from when we were together on his laptop! I don’t remember, can’t tell if he actually does.

He has been threatening to put them up on Twitter or send them in email to some of our mutual friends. One minute he says he loves me, that he still wants to be with me, he can’t live without me and the next he says he wants to punish me. What do I do?
Right now he’s trying to force me to get back together with him or he’ll post the pictures.

I’ve never felt more hurt or betrayed in my life and I strongly don’t want him in my life again. PLEASE HELP!!
I have this strange desire to send some “agberos” to beat him up. Do I do that? Please what should I do?

Reader's opinions
  1. Rotimi victor Lawal   On   May 12, 2015 at 4:11 pm

    Your misjudgment is going to cause you pain and discomfort. You need to involve the law in the situation now before it is too late. Report him to the police and sue him to the law court to get those pictures from him and prevent him from posting through his friends

  2. Akande Ayodeji   On   November 7, 2015 at 9:15 pm

    In the first place why did you take nude pictures of your dear self?I believe someone with his or her senses will not do something like that.This age nothing is hidden,if those pictures were eventually posted online your life is ruined.Anywhere you go,you will be humiliated.The only solution is for you to beg him to stop that idea.

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